For The Woman Who Wants More For Herself

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There’s something magical about a woman who gifts herself time to herself and her desires. Don’t you think? 

When’s the last time you invested in yourself? And, I’m not taking about buying stuff. I’m talking about investing in experiences that develop you… in mentorship to create a change from the inside out. 

The first time I invested in myself, (and I DON’T count traditional education), at a high level was about 4 years ago.

You see, I had this character flaw. A pattern I couldn’t break. When I entered a relationship, it was like nothing was ever good enough. 

Being a woman with a vision and goals to accomplish I was on the move, “doing it”. And, I wanted people in my circle, including my man, to be doing things at a certain level too. 

In my first adult relationship, my ex called me a habitual complainer. I thought I was just helping.  (Since he was 10 years older than I was, you’d think I’d trust the man run his own life like he’d been doing for the 33 years before we met. But nope).

When I met the man I could finally see myself building with for the long-term, I got scared because I had this pattern of pointing out flaws and seeing all the things that weren’t right.

I even revealed to him that “I wondered if I can ever be satisfied?” He interpreted that to mean I didn’t love him. Ouch! 

I realized that something was wrong and I couldn’t put a name on it.

You see, I had gotten by on my looks and my great energy, but inside, I was a broken girl from a broken home who deeply desired to make a change not only in myself but also in my legacy, down to the third and fourth generation. 

I wanted more for myself because I knew the way I was showing up with men wasn’t the best, but I didn’t know how to change. 

Until I met the woman who I hired to mentor me. With her, I learned how to care for myself in a deep and self-honoring way. This allowed me to take the pressure off of the men in my life, so that I could see the good in them and their efforts. 

Because I was keeping my eyes on my own paper instead of the man in my life, I restored my radiance because I was moving forward with acceptance… acceptance of my parents and my own personal story, without judging it, and in accepting men without judging them.

Here’s why I’m sharing this with you. 

You may not have a defective habit of skepticism and mistrust like me. Perhaps your pattern is:

  • Attracting unavailable men
  • Having sex too soon
  • Staying in relationships that show no evidence of long term compatibility
  • Having your guard up
  • Not being yourself when you’re around men
  • Planning and doing everything in the relationship until you get resentful

Girl look. No woman is exceptional ALL by herself. Successful women bubble to the top together.

Let’s partner together to get you where you want to be regarding your femininity, womanhood, and relationships with men. Make having love in your life a priority. 

I want to make sure that you’re aware that the Feminine Allure™ Intensive will be available for one more week.

You read about it here http://feminineallure.co/feminine-allure-intensive

The time is now for you to boost your magic, magnetism, and allure. Men are waiting on you!

I’ve opened up my calendar to speak with you if you have some questions about the Intensive. 

Book your time and let’s chat. Together, let’s get you the clarity you need. I’m happy to help.

You’ve got this!

To your enhancement,

Monique

The Confidence Cure you NEED to Attract the Right Man

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I try to stay away from telling you what you “need” because you know… that’s control. But in this case, I’ve got the remedy for you if…

…you find it challenging to spark conversation when you’re out and about. 

…you haven’t embraced all that you have to offer a man because you don’t even know what it is.

…you want to position yourself for finding and retaining love that will lead to marriage.

Truth is, you’re stuck and you don’t have what you want because your confidence is shook. 

Do you:

  • Feel like you have to force things to take place?
  • Fear being rejected so you keep agonizing over men in your head?
  • Wonder what it is about you that attracts the wrong men, so you feel like there’s something wrong with you?
  • Make predictions about what he might do based on fears, instead of love and abundance?
  • Put up a wall, then wait to see if he has what it takes to bust through it?

These problems can absolutely be solved with one simple thing…

Confidence! 

How does confidence solve these problems?

Let’s talk about it. You see…

  • When you tell yourself you’re “not ready” because of where you are in life right now, you hide or even push men away.
  • When you’re guarded because you’ve been blindsided in the past, it’s not men you don’t trust. It’s because you don’t trust yourself. You don’t trust that you can recover quickly or even pick the next man appropriately.
  • When you meet a nice man, you try to force security by asking lots of questions, or you play the “nice girl” who has no needs at all because you fear rejection.

See? Confidence problems.

If you’re suffering from any of the problems I just mentioned, you need an overhaul in your mindset and presentation (your way of being), right now… one that creates permission, self-trust, and openness.

In order to  have what you want in love and live, you MUST be a CONFIDENT WOMAN who’s CLEAR about who you are and what you want, so you can restore your enthusiasm. 

You don’t have to miss out! You can use your Feminine Allure™. It’ll not only help get your man, but it’ll also help you get a LOT of things. 

In the The Feminine Allure™ Intensive, we’ll work together to boost your confidence and belief so that you:

  • Stay open consistently
  • End the vicious cycle of starting and stopping
  • Have a process to meet and engage with men consistently 

Life’s so much easier when you have confidence, and of course Feminine Allure™ on your side. 

If you want this- and not have to take months (or even years to do it), go here to claim your spot! 

Or, if you want this AND you have some clarifying questions first, book your time so that we can speak this week. 

I’m looking forward to connecting with you.

To your enhancement,

Monique

If You’re Secretly Hoping to Get Discovered…

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I wonder if you can relate to this? 

You’re not in a relationship because you find them to be messy. Perhaps you’ve witnessed a family member’s chaotic relationship and it’s got you like, “that’s too much for me right now. I enjoy my peace too much.” 

You’re not putting yourself out there, yet at your core you want to be in a relationship, and you’re secretly hoping to get discovered. 

While you know this is completely illogical, you can’t seem to get over it. 

Can you relate? 

This kind of script blocks your charisma and your allure.

Here’s why. Can I get science-y on you for a minute? 

The challenge you’re experiencing is an accumulation of patterns (fears) stored in the brain (aka same ol’ script).

There’s a part of the brain, the basal ganglia, that detects what you’re doing, how you’re doing it, and how you’re thinking about it. It encodes a map that allows you to repeat the pattern later on without having thought about it. 

The result? 

This part of the brain takes your “same ol’ script” and creates an itinerary that it believes will work best for you. So you end up in a place you didn’t think you would be. (i.e. “I just thought it would’ve happened by now…”) 

The Feminine Allure™ Intensive can help end this pattern. 

It’s the perfect solution for you because it creates a pattern interrupt.

Consider Winisha. Before she hired me, she knew her biggest block to her success would be getting in her own head and in her own way. Because of past hurts, she was closed off to love and even intimidated by it. She had a hard time receiving without deflecting or having to explain a compliment away.

Naturally, this will impact a woman’s confidence.

These problems can absolutely be solved with one simple thing… 

Feminine Allure™!

How does Feminine Allure™ solve confidence problems? 

Let’s talk about it. You see…

  • When you tell yourself you’re “not ready” because of where you are in life right now, you hide or even push men away.
  • When you’re guarded because you’ve been blindsided in the past, it’s not men you don’t trust. It’s because you don’t trust yourself. You don’t trust that you can recover quickly or even pick the next man appropriately.
  • When you meet a nice man, you try to force security by asking lots of questions, or you play the “nice girl” who has no needs at all because you fear rejection.
  • And finally, when men compliment you or try to flirt with you, you freeze or deflect. 

See?

With Feminine Allure™ on your side, you can show up in a new way in every situation, just like Winisha.

The skills you’ll learn in The Feminine Allure™ Intensive allow you to show up with more power and allure so you can experience more meaningful connections, more consistently.

How would that make a difference in your life right now? 

The intensive experience is available for a limited time. Click here to learn more.

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