You vs. You: Overcoming the Mediocrity Within

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Let’s talk about the resistance that comes up when you decide you are ready for your desires.

Readiness begins with a decision, but what happens when doubt starts to creep in?

I know you wake up everyday, at the top of your game, yet craving something different. Between a great career, family, friends, and a rich life, you want a fulfilling connection that takes everything to the next level.

It’s all yours for the taking, and it starts with a different level of decision-making.

But that different level of decision making makes you question yourself, “who she think she is?”

Last week, when I discussed how I prepared to have my daughter, one of my desires was to hire a cleaning service. My decision to pay for cleaning services brought several things to the surface about my worthiness and whether I was deserving of this decision.

I worried that hiring help reflected poorly on me. I questioned the decision, and wondered,

  • What does it say about me to have another woman come into my home and clean?
  • Can I even trust someone to clean my home?
  • Should I even spend money on this?
  • Maybe I’m just being lazy?

Now, my belly was swollen and I couldn’t move the way I wanted to because I was pregnant. It made perfect sense to hire help, but even my husband chided, “Don’t be actin’ brand new when they come to help you.”

My fearful thoughts about hiring help were all normal representations of resistance against this needed change. It brought up the mediocrity within.

All the fears that came forward when I leveled up were simply bringing up areas of stuckage I needed to move past to grow.

Can you relate?

If you’re currently in the process of making real life decisions, including investing in mentorship, you’ll experience stressful, fear-filled thoughts as you move up too.

When those attack thoughts come in, celebrate them. That means you’re pushing past your comfort zone. Embrace the fear as you head in the right direction.

By yielding to the greater direction of your desires, your life will shift and yield to support those desires. Whether you decide to invest in yourself through me or someone else, understand that your goal is to get aligned to the truth of your heart’s desires.

Here’s your next step.

First, your solution is to release all ideas that are not in harmony with your desires.

Next, ask yourself:

  • Who must you become to embrace your purpose, your next level?
  • Who is the woman who gets everything she wants?

See, I questioned my decision – and myself – until I realized who I would become.

I became the woman who allowed herself to have help. I became the woman who supported herself by financially supporting the business of another woman who would help me to go to the next level.

I became the woman who said “yes” to any and every investment she needed to make in order to create the life she desired and deserved.

At the end of the day, your desires must be greater than the fear that suppresses them. Aligning to fear is pledging allegiance to what scares you.

To abide by fear is to let it win, and that means making the choice to remain where you are.

You’re not meant to go backwards. You are here for a purpose.

Are you doing the things you’re supposed to be doing to get closer to your goals?

Do you feel totally confident in your ability to go against any ideas that keep you from your desires?

If you need help releasing what’s not in harmony, let’s talk.  Yes, you can hire me to assist you, especially if you want feel confident to attract the man that you want.

Until then, cling to what you know – that you deserve to have the love and richness you desire – and trust God in the process.

To your enhancement,

Become An Irresistible Magnet for ALL that Belongs to You

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You already know you don’t have to be perfect when it comes to love. You just have to be ready.

I want to expand that statement. You don’t have to be perfect, because once you decide that you are ready, everything falls into place. You become an irresistible magnet for everything that belongs to you by divine right, because your heart – your spirit’s strongest magnet – is aligned to it.

Your readiness is simple. It begins with a decision. You simply choose to give yourself permission to have what you want. You start with the end in mind, plan backwards, and then allow time for things to come together – with infinite patience for immediate results.

How Readiness Manifested My Daughter

Readiness is how I manifested my daughter, Amelia.

I wasn’t perfect when I decided to become a mother. My husband and I got married when I was 33. We made plans to have a child when I was at least 36.

My first decision began with honoring my desires. I always knew that I wanted to be a mom. I knew that I wanted to have a family. It was important to me to select someone who I could trust as a father.

Our first decision as a married couple began with harmony. My husband and I worked on our marriage before we had a child. We got married at 33 and knew I wanted a child by 36, so I knew that I needed to give myself time to prepare a warm, harmonious environment for my child to live in.

After that, different changes were made. I didn’t feel the same about my body, which had changed over the years, so I invested in lingerie. Because John and I weren’t always sexually ready at the same time, I invested in lube – Pre-Seed – to enhance my fertility and help rev the engine when needed.

Then, once I filled my cup up, took control of my energy and happiness, I realized my bedroom wasn’t an inviting environment for love. I tidied up the space, created order in the boudoir, and eventually hired a house cleaner.

Oh, and I had to become clear about my whoooole ovulation cycle. I had to know what my body was doing, and when, to set myself up for a favorable outcome.

My pregnancy was revealed two days after my 34th birthday. And once I embraced that my blessing was here, I decided to relax and get present to that experience.

And it was a beautiful, beautiful experience.

How to Manifest Anything That’s Yours by Divine Right

You become an irresistible magnet for all which belongs to you by Divine Right the moment you decide you’re ready.

As you can see, there were steps to my readiness process. I visualized what I wanted and worked my way towards it. But above all, I had to water my own garden and fill up my own cup first. You have to do the same.

All you need to do is align your heart to be clear that you want what you want NOW. Creating an environment that is favorable to your outcome means you’re getting present to YOUR desires, despite what’s happening around you.

And this also means you have to be willing to invest in it. Do whatever it takes within your capability, and then let go and let God handle the rest.

Whenever I wanted a favorable outcome, I invested in it. I purchased pre-Seed, lingerie, tidied my space, hired help, and invested time and energy and passion into myself and my husband.

And once I couldn’t do anything else by the power of my own two hands, efforts, and actions, I chilled out. I stood on God’s promises no matter what happened.

Even in the face of spiritual attacks – which always happened when I was the most turned on (and most fertile) – I stood strong and trusted God because I knew my bounty was protected by Divine Right.

Get ready. Become an irresistible magnet for everything that belongs to YOU by Divine Right. Position yourself and your environment to produce a favorable outcome for you.

If not, you will stay in the decision.

And Indecision is straight up suffering the end.

It’ll be my pleasure to show you how to manifest a beautiful life filled with the manifestation of God’s promises to you. My calendar is only open to focused women who are excited, willing, and committed to create change now. 

Does that sound like you? If so, I invite you to apply for a Breakthrough Call.  

To your enhancement,


P.S. Have you decided it’s time to embrace your Feminine Allure? I have time available to speak with you this week. Click here to apply. We’ll discuss your situation and determine whether you’re a fit for our program.

How to Permanently BLOCK True Love from Entering

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Let’s get straight to the chase. Your heart yearns for love.

You want a man you can trust as your emergency contact. You desire someone who can hold it down around the house and with the kids.  You would love for God to send you a man who is strong, protective, and equally capable of ravishing you as much as he prays for you.

(Yes, I went there.)

Deep down, your heart wants a man who will let you exhale, make you smile, and will adorn you with love.

Yet, instead of embracing the idea for Mr. Right to show up right now, you fall back insinuate it’s not time yet. You say things like:

  • “I need to work on my personality.”
  • “I need to lose at least 25 pounds.”
  •  “I promised myself I’d wait until after my son graduates.”
  • “I have too many responsibilities to date.”
  • “I need more time to heal.”

Statements like these are harmful. At surface level, they don’t seem negative. But, they are cross-purposes that seep into your spirit and throw a counter intention against your desires, ultimately slowing down your results.

You can tell yourself that you need to wait. And yes, it sounds noble and all, but the truth is it’s unnecessary.

You’ll always have something to do. Life will always provide opportunities for you to improve and people who need your attention.

As for perfection? Nobody’s perfect, so you’ll never be perfect. But that’s cool, because love never requires any of us to be perfect. Even the Bible declares in 1 Corinthians 13: 4-8:

Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails. But where there are prophecies, they will cease; where there are tongues, they will be stilled; where there is knowledge, it will pass away.

Not one part of this passage mentions perfection. Why delay your happiness waiting for something you’ll never have or need?

You’ll never be ready until you decide you are ready.

Love doesn’t require you to be perfect. It just requires you to be ready. That’s it. You just have to be ready. And guess what?

You’re ready the moment you declare yourself to be.

Embrace The Feminine Allure Path to Love

Once you’ve decided to embrace your heart’s desires, welcome! You’re ready for love. Now’s your time to wholly and fully take control of your love life.

Let’s have a conversation about whether my system can remove your roadblocks and move you forward so you can get where you want to go.


To your enhancement,