If You’re Secretly Hoping to Get Discovered…

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I wonder if you can relate to this? 

You’re not in a relationship because you find them to be messy. Perhaps you’ve witnessed a family member’s chaotic relationship and it’s got you like, “that’s too much for me right now. I enjoy my peace too much.” 

You’re not putting yourself out there, yet at your core you want to be in a relationship, and you’re secretly hoping to get discovered. 

While you know this is completely illogical, you can’t seem to get over it. 

Can you relate? 

This kind of script blocks your charisma and your allure.

Here’s why. Can I get science-y on you for a minute? 

The challenge you’re experiencing is an accumulation of patterns (fears) stored in the brain (aka same ol’ script).

There’s a part of the brain, the basal ganglia, that detects what you’re doing, how you’re doing it, and how you’re thinking about it. It encodes a map that allows you to repeat the pattern later on without having thought about it. 

The result? 

This part of the brain takes your “same ol’ script” and creates an itinerary that it believes will work best for you. So you end up in a place you didn’t think you would be. (i.e. “I just thought it would’ve happened by now…”) 

The Feminine Allure™ Intensive can help end this pattern. 

It’s the perfect solution for you because it creates a pattern interrupt.

Consider Winisha. Before she hired me, she knew her biggest block to her success would be getting in her own head and in her own way. Because of past hurts, she was closed off to love and even intimidated by it. She had a hard time receiving without deflecting or having to explain a compliment away.

Naturally, this will impact a woman’s confidence.

These problems can absolutely be solved with one simple thing… 

Feminine Allure™!

How does Feminine Allure™ solve confidence problems? 

Let’s talk about it. You see…

  • When you tell yourself you’re “not ready” because of where you are in life right now, you hide or even push men away.
  • When you’re guarded because you’ve been blindsided in the past, it’s not men you don’t trust. It’s because you don’t trust yourself. You don’t trust that you can recover quickly or even pick the next man appropriately.
  • When you meet a nice man, you try to force security by asking lots of questions, or you play the “nice girl” who has no needs at all because you fear rejection.
  • And finally, when men compliment you or try to flirt with you, you freeze or deflect. 


With Feminine Allure™ on your side, you can show up in a new way in every situation, just like Winisha.

The skills you’ll learn in The Feminine Allure™ Intensive allow you to show up with more power and allure so you can experience more meaningful connections, more consistently.

How would that make a difference in your life right now? 

The intensive experience is available for a limited time. Click here to learn more.

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