trigger attraction by existing as love

Attract Men by Existing as Love More Consistently

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Today I want to talk about how you can begin to exist as love more consistently. It changes the nature of who you are as a woman and it changes the nature of your relationships and it changes the nature of how people respond to you.

You’re going to be showing up differently, right? You’re going to be showing up with more of your influence, with more of your Feminine Allure™.

Here’s what it looks like. In order for you to begin to live as love more consistently you have to give to others what you yourself want or what you yourself do not have.

Whatever you want to experience in life, you have to give that up. You have to give it to others through the spirit of generosity, through the spirit of gratitude.

This is what it looks like.

If you don’t trust others, oftentimes it’s because you don’t trust yourself. If you want more friends, the scripture says that you got to be friendly. If you want more money, you have to give it away. If you want more love in your life, more wholeness, more friendships, more compassion for other people, you want to be seen, you have to see other people. You want to be able to give that away.

Whatever you want to experience in your own life, you have to give that away.

That is something that I heard from David Neal Walsh as I was watching a movie this weekend, called The Moses Code.

You might be saying, “Monique, how can I give what I don’t have?”

Well, the fact that you can give it away, the fact that you can be compassionate to someone, the fact that you can trust or give trust as a gift is evidence that you have it within yourself to give, okay?

This is really important because Scripture says to do unto others as you would have them to do unto you because your reward will be great, and especially as the child of God, as the child of the most High God. 

Here’s the important thing. Scientists have studied and shown that the brain doesn’t know if we’re mean to someone, if we’re calling someone else a name, if we’re very mistrusting and skeptical of someone, the brain doesn’t know that we’re offering that to someone else.

What happens is that it accepts that as self-direction, a self-directed insult, as a self-directed skeptic, as a self-directed whatever it is.

The brain receives what you give off to others as a gift to itself.

That’s the message. The brain receives what you give to others as a gift to itself. If you want to begin to live as love more consistently, and that is really important for you to, number one, own your femininity so that you can attract the right man and create that purposeful relationship, especially living in purpose.

This is what I said in the last video, the question that you want to ask yourself as a woman, especially as you begin to feel really uneasy in those moments where you just want to go off, you’re like, “Whatever. I’m tired of this. I want to give up.”

Ask yourself, “How can I begin to show love more consistently?” Ask yourself is, “How is God using me in this moment to love an imperfect person?”

I’ve been talking about this a lot, because this is something that I’m also implementing and applying within my own life. I just want to share it with you, because you know that when you have something great, you want to share it, okay?

I hope that this serve you. If it has, go ahead and leave a comment below. What’s your #1 takeaway?

Just remember that whatever you’re giving to other people, you’re giving that back to yourself, because the brain, it doesn’t even know the difference, okay?

This is why existing as love, showing yourself as love, understanding and asking, “Okay, how can I be used in this moment to be love, to exist as more love and more tenderness?”

The gift for you is that not only will your reward be great in Heaven, but it changes the nature of who you are as a woman so that you can show with more love, more light, more fun, more playing, more radiance, more attraction.

This is really an attraction trigger for you.

To your enhancement,


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