“I’m More Confident in Myself When I Encounter Men”

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Nicole and I are actually friends. We went to law school together.

It’s special when a personal friend pays your full investment amount to become a client. When she came to me for help, Nicole’s most pressing issue was lack of confidence. She desired a mindset shift that would improve her perception of men, dating, and her ability to enjoy a successful love life. Here’s her story.


Nicole: “I Can Hold a Conversation without Being a Nervous Wreck”

When I signed up for Attract A Man You Want, I would say the most pressing issue that I had was lack of confidence. This issue directly impacted my perception of men, my perspective on dating, and my thoughts on having a successful love life.

I was also attached to a 4 to 5 year situationship. I had trouble letting go due to uncertainty around whether I would attract someone else.

I invested in myself with Monique because I was impressed with her knowledge. She is an expert. She hasn’t just read a couple of books and proclaimed to be a love coach. She really studied her craft, and the fruits of her labor are present in her life. She’s married with a baby, which was the tangible evidence I needed to trust my decision.

My Excuses Against Joining the Program

My decision wasn’t met easily. I wasn’t sure if I wanted to invest that much money, my desire wasn’t to end up in a relationship, and my friends shaded me.

As an attorney, I know people pay for what they want and need. I was at a point in my life where I was tired of the same old thing.  

But if I could spend $3,000 on a handbag without thinking, then I knew that I could invest in an experience that would give me tangible results and make me feel better on the inside.

My friends weren’t supportive either. One of my married girlfriends made sarcastic remarks on my interest to join the program.

But then I evaluated her marriage. Their love life didn’t resonate with me. I thought, ‘Tuh! Maybe they should use a coach!” because I certainly didn’t want to end up like them.

My Results from Working with Monique

My decision to invest ultimately boiled down to being sick and tired of being sick and tired. 

Negative thoughts, mainly around fears that I would be alone, plagued me prior to joining. I’m proud to say I’ve outgrown that mentality, which is the result I’m most proud of. I have grown comfortable in who I am and I look forward to the day I meet the man of my dreams. That’s major for me!

I’m not currently in a committed relationship, but I am celebrating the changes in my life since working with Monique. I’ve released so many unwanted beliefs and from the first lesson I became more aware of men, how they’re looking at me, and how to respond to them.

One of my neighbors stopped me the other day. We talked for a while. I was able to look in his face, converse, and have no attachment to the end result. Once I got in the car, I was like, Okay, girl! I see you!  

Monique’s trainings, plus the opportunities to apply, were so helpful. If you’ve never done something like this, but are on the fence, I want you to know you’re not alone.

Hearing other people’s stories and drawing strength from them has helped me, and it will help you. If you follow the 7-step system and you show up and do the work, you will attract at least two dates.

Get clear on what you want. Once you’re clear on that, the apprehension goes away. You’ll see your goal, and you’ll see what it takes to get your way. When you are ready, there’s nothing you need to do except make the decision to step forward. Monique is an expert, and the evidence is there just by looking at her life.


How Nicole Aligned Herself to Attract the Men that She Wanted

Throughout her passage, Nicole dropped several cues on what helped her boost her confidence to attract better quality men.  

  1. She decided she was ready – even if she wasn’t immediately ready. “When you’re sick and tired of being sick and tired, you know that you’re ready for a change.”
  2. She knew the specific results she wanted to achieve from the get-go. “My goal wasn’t to end up in a relationship. I wanted to improve my personal confidence and my perspective on dating.”
  3. She decided not to worry about what other people – especially friends –  thought of her choices. “When you are serious about a change, it doesn’t matter what other people think. When people don’t have what you’re looking for, they’re in no position to make a comment. “

Nicole is relationship ready! She’s been able to expand her options, increase her confidence, and experience the joy of feminine allure.  

It’s Your Turn Next

Whether you’re a woman wants confidence, wants to let her guard down, or wants to go on more dates, if you follow the system and do the work you’re guaranteed to go out on 2 dates in at least 2 weeks.

If you’re really looking for a change and if you want to experience similar results then consider joining my Attract A Man You Want Program. 

I hope to speak with you soon.

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